Bakit masama ang Chismis?

Or rumors Rumors / Gossip English word, what was done to our lives as citizens? Said on wikipedia and my own understanding is it was pagkkwentuhan about the lives of other people coupled with negative feedback, stories or insights with the truth or not. Magkwentuhan fond Filipinos, from loitering on corners, in neighborhoods, magkakaklase, co-workers or even the Internet. What is also delicious snacks without the fellowship and exchange of opinion. Included in our culture to talk about the lives of others when nothing significant can speak about yourself or you hate the enemy that sho better or with more money.

Why is it bad rumors? Think you walk on the road and have heard you whispering, how will you feel if you knew how they murmured are you? You nabuko neighbor's wife has since reached number 2 on the rumors of him with a woman in the mall, he threw the clothes out and eventually found out that his cousin just turned it nimister. Many walking and talking about the lives of others since the destruction of good relations, friendship and deterioration of starting a fight and mess. We have our own lives that we can not speak about but tampering with the lives of others and to broadcast it is not good manners as a well-educated and good man.

We need to lift ourselves by vandalism or backward in speaking evil of others, thereby we can look cheap and there is no breeding. Everything has a limit, and with that there was tampering with the lives of others. The secret is found not to be mean to other people because if it is sensitive and can destroy, you caused all the trouble. The thing with proper use, including our tongues. Imagine then, who are you to let people know the things entrusted to you that you should not tell others? Why do you need to tell the world the good things nangayri you or someone else that you do not think someone will get hurt or chaos? Only that discipline.

On the other hand, well affiliated rumors the crab mentality, I'll see a new use of mare, you are going to say neighbors and that is not good or they just borrowed it. I work better with you then you can expose the secret boss that he was asleep on the job even after he closed his eyes just finish everything. Why can not we just too hard for us also achieve success? Those people that, if they never met where they are today if they have not done that unearned glad you have them masisisra by vandalism.

Delicious to share feelings with friends. Said that, alleviate loneliness, resentment and stress if you share with those closest to your heart you are going through or grievance. But what if it spread around the world? Did you break your boyfriend with another woman because according to your doubts. Super resentment and you want a shoulder to lean on, spread it to your friends, co-workers, neighbors, you have posted on Facebook and as a security guard naikwento you. Imagine that you're not just making Pulutan your life, destroying also those being the boyfriend to someone else. There are things that one should spread than just privately, whether good or bad. Lined in the middle of being shared and eeskandalo.

Also avoid magkwentuhan, I said that magkwentuhan fine but if we think it can be. Also having trouble increases when the story elements born of envy and hatred. If you have come to us and did not hear the inevitable topic around, do not just hope to increase it. Peter Nalate work done the next day Peter nalate news because it has a kadate. Because they know that she is dating Peter if he himself did not know his own shovel with you dating him.

The existence of the dispute well is part of human life. Nothing is perfect in this world. I just have this situation, we do not nurture them by pagsususmbong other people who are not involved or if not so much the issue. Might prompt you just spread the issue because it appears that you're looking for allies after ending the exemption also searched other side after World War 3. As much as possible to arrange something private and peaceful.

There are really difficult situation magpaka educated. Neither am I saying that I'm perfect, I went on stage I'm also part of the disinformation and who does not turn? You admit you also. Can you just the things you have learned the things you have experienced in the past and for me, really bad because narasan mainvolve rumors here and machismis. Painful thing you know you have to say they are not good and you do not defend yourself manlang and those hard of guilt because you have done poorly. Well, what should I do? Listen, do not judge and do not maikalam. We respect each other. A person with self-respect is wise to respect other people. -FAF